Top 10 Questions Families Ask About Men's Memory Care

There’s a lot that makes our network of communities unique. But we are especially proud that several of our communities offer men’s memory care. Our carefully designed program was created to support the unique needs and preferences of male residents while providing a comfortable, supportive atmosphere where all residents feel respected, protected, and valued.  

If you’re exploring memory care for your dad, husband, or another male loved one, here are 10 questions to ask about our men’s memory care program, along with answers for what to expect. 

1. How is men’s memory care different from non-gendered memory care? 

In our experience, men in memory care respond best to routines, activities, or therapies that feel familiar and purposeful, especially those that require skills they used routinely in their earlier lives and careers. That's why we offer programming such as hands-on crafting projects, outdoor activities and games, and small-group conversations on familiar topics. 

2. What dementia therapies do you use in your community? 

Our men’s memory care team uses evidence-based approaches like structured routines, sensory engagement, and calm spaces to support your loved one’s well-being and encourage communication. If required, we can also provide advanced services to help your loved one through the end of life. 

We integrate our L.I.F.E. (Loving, Individualized, Fulfilling, Empowering) program into men’s memory care, offering therapies such as music, pet visits, life skills activities, and aromatherapy to promote comfort and connection 

3. How do you handle challenging dementia-related behaviors? 

We ensure that your dad or loved one is supported in a way that preserves their dignity, using evidence-based dementia therapies like redirection and communication techniques designed to manage behavior. We are also a thoughtfully designed, secure environment, which helps tendencies to move about or explore. 

4. How do I know my dad will be safe? 

Your husband’s or dad’s safety is our top priority—but we believe safety should never come at the expense of comfort or dignity. That’s why our men’s memory care communities are thoughtfully designed to provide security in a way that still feels warm, familiar, and home-like. 

From secured entrances and discreet monitoring to purposefully arranged common areas, every detail helps prevent risks while encouraging independence. Hallways are well-lit and easy to navigate, and furniture is arranged to reduce fall hazards. We also maintain a low care team-to-resident ratio so someone is always nearby to offer support when needed. 

5. How do you involve families in care planning? 

We encourage families to participate in creating a care plan for their loved one and to visit whenever they would like. We also pride ourselves on maintaining open, transparent communication with residents’ families to keep them updated on their loved one’s care. 

6. How do you discourage social isolation? 

Meaningful social connection is key to our approach to men’s dementia care. We have found our residents tend to thrive in purpose-driven programs, whether it’s working in the garden, doing a puzzle, or building a birdhouse, so we try to make those social activities as well. 

7. What medical care is available and how do you handle medical emergencies? 

Our care team are available 24/7 to provide medical support. We also coordinate with outside medical providers for medications, therapy, and wellness checks to ensure your husband’s or dad’s physical and emotional health. 

8. Are your team members trained in dementia care? 

Our teams are trained in dementia care and are familiar with a range of dementia therapies. They also take the time to get to know your dad’s story, his preferences, and needs to help build a sense of trust and tailor care specifically to him. 

9. How do you ensure residents maintain dignity and independence? 

In our experience, male memory care residents tend to enjoy hands-on tasks and routines that bring a sense of purpose, so we try to include those elements in each day as well. It’s also important to us that every interaction we have with your loved one recognizes him as the wonderful person he still is. 

10. How do I know if it’s time for my dad to go into memory care? 

If your loved one is becoming more confused, needs help with daily tasks, or if you feel he isn’t safe living alone, memory care may be the best next step. We focus on making sure our residents enjoy a better quality of life, not just on managing symptoms.  

Exploring your dad’s next steps 

Our programming at Comforts men’s memory care communities is carefully designed to offer personalized dementia therapies, an experienced team trained in dementia care, purpose-driven programming and activities, and, most of all, an approach to memory care that honors each residents’ unique value.  

Our Minnesota communities in Mendota Heights, Blaine, and Inner Grove Heights and our Wisconsin communities in River Falls and St. Croix Falls all offer men’s memory care. To learn more about all our assisted living, memory care, and men’s memory care communities in Minnesota and Wisconsin, don’t hesitate to reach out to our team. We look forward to welcoming you to our community!